Not Yours To Carry
Pre-Order: Oils will be shipping the week of June 13, 2026.
Release. Grieve. Soften. Return to self.
This oil is deeply personal. Not Yours to Carry was created in honor of a loss, my baby I lost in 2024, who I lovingly nicknamed Gator. There’s a small hidden detail on the label, a tiny alligator, placed intentionally as a quiet remembrance. If you have this oil in your hands, take a moment to find it.
This blend holds space for grief in all its forms. The loud kind. The silent kind. The kind that lingers in your chest when everything else has moved on.
It works gently to lift emotional weight that was never meant for you to hold forever, helping you release pain, guilt, and heaviness without rushing your healing. There’s no force here, only permission. Permission to feel, to process, and to eventually breathe a little easier.
You are allowed to put it down.You are allowed to heal at your own pace.
Use for: Grief support, emotional release, shadow work, heart healing, and spiritual cleansing. Apply during baths, meditation, journaling, or moments of overwhelm. Can be used in rituals focused on release, cord-cutting, or honoring loved ones.
Main scents: sandalwood, vanilla, jasmine, bergamot.
Reviews
This might get a little emotional but I want to say I’ve never tried oils from anyone she is the first: not yours to carry.. is an oil that’s been hitting me strong . I’m not here to rant but I’ve been through hell, the path that was chosen for me isn’t perfect.. but emotionally and physically mentally it is hard - grief is something u can’t run from- but it’s a trauma pan that will always be there and this oil has helped me relax.. calm down.. but most of all feel my pain the right way…
A portion of my practice revolves around death work and I was hit with some very intense emotions of grief and I used a few drops (5) on myself and within seconds it just felt like that weight of grief was removed off of my chest and I was able to find my sense of balance and control over the situation again so I could’ve grounded. 11/10 would recommend, especially is death work is part of your practice.
The way I already have something nice to say in itself shows these work! I used this oil for some shadow work yesterday and also anointed myself with it. I instantly felt my intentions working with the oil as I felt mentally lighter. it just seemed to quieten my mind naturally. I’d recommend this to anyone who is chronically anxious! Get 👏🏽 her 👏🏽 oils 👏🏽.
This oil is like an energetic weighted blanket. It’s so comforting and grounding when emotions are high or when the heart feels heavy. The scent is so clean and uplifting!