Not Yours To Carry

Release. Grieve. Soften. Return to self.
This oil is deeply personal. Not Yours to Carry was created in honor of a loss, my baby I lost in 2024, who I lovingly nicknamed Gator. There’s a small hidden detail on the label, a tiny alligator, placed intentionally as a quiet remembrance. If you have this oil in your hands, take a moment to find it.
This blend holds space for grief in all its forms. The loud kind. The silent kind. The kind that lingers in your chest when everything else has moved on.
It works gently to lift emotional weight that was never meant for you to hold forever, helping you release pain, guilt, and heaviness without rushing your healing. There’s no force here, only permission. Permission to feel, to process, and to eventually breathe a little easier.
You are allowed to put it down.You are allowed to heal at your own pace.
Use for:Grief support, emotional release, shadow work, heart healing, and spiritual cleansing. Apply during baths, meditation, journaling, or moments of overwhelm. Can be used in rituals focused on release, cord-cutting, or honoring loved ones.
Main scents: sandalwood, vanilla, jasmine, bergamot.